"What Is Wrong With Me?" ADHD Truths I Wish I Knew As a Child
I grew up feeling something was wrong with me â that I was lesser, or maybe broken. Now I know that what others misidentified as âwrongâ or âdifferentâ was actually extraordinary â and that ADHD can be an incredible asset if appreciated.
by June Silny
ADHD After All These Years
I heard my third grade teacherâs voice, but the flowers outside
the window were calling my name louder, so I paid attention to them. She clapped
her hands in front of my face and snapped, âWhy arenât you paying attention?
Stop daydreaming.â I was paying
attention, just not to the correct things, apparently. Embarrassed and ashamed,
I wanted to run away and cry.
âADD can cause feelings of shame, fear, and self-doubt,â says Edward Hallowell, M.D. As parents, we need to know this. We need to recognize when our kids are hurting under the strain of ridicule, challenges, and frustration. We need to remind ourselves to see the beauty, joy, and wisdom in our children.
Hereâs what I wish I would knew when I was a child with ADHD.
âADD can cause feelings of shame, fear, and self-doubt,â says Edward Hallowell, M.D. As parents, we need to know this. We need to recognize when our kids are hurting under the strain of ridicule, challenges, and frustration. We need to remind ourselves to see the beauty, joy, and wisdom in our children.
Hereâs what I wish I would knew when I was a child with ADHD.